Posted by: HOMOLICKER © | September 18, 2009

High school Sex Change Agony

This is a post which appeared today regarding a young persons battle with prejudice regarding their gender struggle and initail return to secondary school.

A school that called an assembly to announce a pupil had changed sex over the summer has been strongly criticised by a gender expert.

The child in question, a 12-year-old boy, turned up for his first day at secondary school wearing a dress and with long hair in pigtails, according to the Sun newspaper.

He has reportedly suffered relentless bullying, while the parents of other pupils are furious they were not warned or given help to answer their questions.

“It is very unfortunate,” a spokesman for the Gender Identity Research and Education Society (gires) told Sky News Online.

“It needs a careful process of familiarisation, not the big bang approach.

“The proper way would have been to train all staff before the term started, to work with the child’s peer group and to prepare the teachers to be able to talk to the other pupils and their parents individually to answer their questions.

“What one school did was get the pupil to talk with peers in an interaction that was supervised by teachers. That kind of careful process is what’s required.”

According to the Sun, the unnamed boy is preparing to have hormone therapy and may later undergo surgery that would make him one of the youngest people in the world to have a sex change.

“It’s important to understand that in a typical case like this, the child will know something’s not right from a very early age,” the gires spokesman said.

“If they have a supportive family and a supportive school that’s fine, but what they find hardest is the bullying. Dreadful things can happen to these children.”

Gires has spoken to adolescents with gender identity disorders who have experienced violent confrontations, verbal abuse and social exclusion.

Another battle they face is getting access to the hormone therapy that will prevent them from going through the ‘wrong’ puberty.

“In the US and many other European countries, if the child starts to become extremely distressed at the onset of puberty, they will be offered very safe medication to delay the process,” said the gires spokesman.

“The child then has time to consider which gender he or she wants to be as an adult.

“British doctors refuse to do this because they say that a youngster is not mature enough to make that decision until after puberty, but all it does is create huge distress.

“There is a very high risk of suicide among this group: 23% have engaged in self harm or taken an overdose.”

The spokesman cited the case of Kim Petras, a German teenager who was born a boy, had hormone treatment from age 12 and a full sex change operation at 16, as an example of a successful transition.

According to the NHS choices website, “the use of hormone blockers in children under the age of 16 is a controversial subject in the medical community”.

Kim Petras who was born male and was the worlds youngest sex change patient at the age of 16

Kim

Posted by: HOMOLICKER © | September 17, 2009

HOMOLICKER©

“Well, life changes so fast and you’re left feeling like the time you had passed so fast and you wish that you could go back and have all those wonderful feelings again,but cannot ever again!. This is the nature of life,growing older and realising the fundamental lesson that life has to offer is to be grateful and thankful and never wasteful and take for granted what you have!.”

HOMOLICKER ©

Posted by: HOMOLICKER © | September 6, 2009

A Fabulous Pair of New Boots

On Saturday I was walking past Office in Chester and I saw the most perfect looking pair of boots looking back at me through the window. I knew we both needed each other and to deny it would be a crime against my homosexuality!, so in I walked.

Trying on these beauties I felt a sense of completeness and I feeling that we were meant to be together,I felt like an amputee being reunited with his severed limb!…….
Needless to say my bank card was whipped out in a flash and I returned home with an erection in my pants and a smile on my face!

Posted by: HOMOLICKER © | September 3, 2009

My Sadness and Heartbreak

The end of July and the month of August has for me been such a terribly stressful and emotionally draining time and will be etched in my psyche for eternity. Jack my beloved dog of 14 years passed away on the 27th July suffering from a burst pancreatic tumour, he had not been eating properly  for about a month previous but on the Saturday it became obvious that something seriously was wrong with him.

He was admitted to the vets hospital in Chester on the Saturday where they performed various test on him and gave him medication to ease his discomfort, an hour after he was admitted they informed me that he had cancer!. He stayed in the hospital over the weekend and was released on the Monday to the care of our local vets, They had intended to operated to try to local the cancer but around seven o’clock that night I received a call that Jack had worsened and wouldn’t last the night.

Jack had all but gone when we saw him last and we were with him when he was put to sleep,Jack helped me through my fathers terminal cancer and I helped jack through his passing and it was a promise that I made to him as a thank you to all the wonderful and happy times we had shared that I would never let him suffer.

The following month I began to drink heavily every night to ease my pain but I knew that at some point the drinking would have to stop, my health was deteriorating and my body felt like I had aged to around 80 years old. Two weeks ago I stopped drinking and a visit to the doctor helped me terribly, I am now back to full health and feeling better than ever!.

I am stronger than I have ever been but there is a sadness in my heart for my dear sweet Jack, you will always be missed.

R.I.P Jack 24th September 1995 – 27th August 2009.


My dog Jack



Posted by: HOMOLICKER © | August 27, 2009

Snow Leopard verses CS3 Photoshop

The new operating system Snow Leopard for the Mac is released on Friday 28th August giving some a faster mac and more space and I for one was eager to purchase the latest exciting shiny new product from Apple. Luckily I came across an article posted on the Wired website informing that adobe will not guarantee that CS3 will work on snow leopard!!.

Only CS4 has been tested and will work on the new system but those who are using the expensive CS3 software (£500) will either have to upgrade to the latest creative release for around £150 or not bother installing Snow Leopard at all if they prefer to continue using CS3, which is my preference.

I just feel like I am being cornered into a situation where I have to make a choice of either spending even more money or be stuck with an operating system which will be neglected by Apple in the future!.

Adobe you fail to support your customers requirements and are just money grabbing and morally corrupt.

Posted by: HOMOLICKER © | July 22, 2009

Eureka (word of the day)

Today I have had a really fun and positive day,I think my problem stems from my constant thinking and worrying over what may or may not happen in the future instead of living for the moment,whats going to happen will happen and worrying over it is not helping me at all.

This advice I have told friends who were in a similar boat so I should already know what to do in this particular situation,…. not to worry, I have survived more dire events and have continued to be the crazy extroverted person that I am!.

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Posted by: HOMOLICKER © | July 21, 2009

spinning out of control……

I am feeling that my life is out of control recently because I have no direction or goals which to drive me!, I am drinking way too much alcohol for my own good and if I continue down this road my health and sanity will be questioned.

Nothing seems to give me much joy for any length of time, i’m not saying I am depressed because I know im not,maybe the word jaded would be more appropriate, I have been single for too long a time and don’t ask me how long because its THAT long ago I have forgotten.

Taking a risk and letting someone else share your life is scary and i’m very independent and cautious regarding close contact physically and emotionally but its becoming a problem and raises issues that need to be dealt with sooner than later.
I just needed to write about my feelings and try to visualise a way to recharge my life and maybe stabilise my stormy life which can not continue the way it is going!!!!

munch The scream

SONG BY KLEERUP  ”UNTIL WE BLEED” SETS THE MOOD APPROPRIATELY

Posted by: HOMOLICKER © | June 30, 2009

The film “Milk” a surprise story line.

After watching Gus Van Sant’s film “Milk” I was surprised by the fact that I didn’t know that gay people who were living in the Castro area during the late seventies were subjected to violent attacks from the police!. Call me naive but I thought that the Castro would have been one area where gay people would have sanctuary from such behaviour.

This story line in the film was eye opening for me and I am a little surprised by this fact of intimidation and violence and being the age that I am (teenager during the late seventies) when I “came out” I dreamed of going to San Fransisco and as I thought it at the time live in a safe haven for homosexuals.

I was also very shocked by Sean Penn’s performance of Harvey Milk which was outstanding and sensitive and coming from a man who’s previous roles which have been ultra masculine and one dimensional, its with great surprise that in “Milk” he can surly act with passion and intelligence.

Eye candy is supplied by James Franco who looked stunningly sexy during the first half of the film with a hot beard and grungy/hippy type clothes and his performance was also believable and heart warming and he brought a sincere and intimate quality to the character.

But really with Gus Van Sant as director the film couldn’t fail, he is in my eyes a genius!

James Franco

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Sean Penn

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Poster for the Film

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Posted by: HOMOLICKER © | June 27, 2009

Natural male sexuality D & G style

The major success of the collection by D & G lies within their clever use of muted colours and studded detail’s, I love the denim jeans with distressed detail’s and side embellishments which are also on jackets and shirts.

The collection evokes a simplified natural approached to male sexuality, not trying too hard and over emphasising or over styling the male body,but cleverly attaining an earthy maleness which conclusively evokes confidence with the male sexual form.

Where Dsquared tried too hard and failed , D & G effortless showcased their natural ability once again to visually present the male in a very sexual and natural way!.

D&G Dolce & Gabbana Spring Summer 2010 Menswear Full Show.

Posted by: HOMOLICKER © | June 26, 2009

Buying Alexander McQueen clothes may induce insanity!

Right!, so let me get this straight,what Alexander McQueen is saying or rather implying with his video for his collection is that if you buy his clothes you will either……

  1. Get so into debt by the sheer price of his clobber that you will ignore ALL CREDIT CARD REMINDERS and simply BURN THEM!.
  2. Go completely insane and be committed to a looney bin.
  3. Be reduced to self-harming with a biro.
  4. Your O.C.D takes over with red paint and your real opinion about his clothes is written out on the wall in graffiti (SHIT).
  5. Or you simply run around in your white underpants trying to escape the homosexual clothes assistant, who must at all costs measure your inside leg measurement even though you only came in to buy an over priced t-shirt!.

Whatever the intent of the director (David Sims) its simply bizarre and what is the implication of the video because its doesn’t produce the desire to buy his clothes,well not with me anyway!.

Alexander Mcqueen Spring Summer 2010 Menswear Film.Directed By David Sims.

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